Stroke by Stroke: A Helpful Guide on How to Give Great Hand Jobs
He said the orgasm came in wave after wave and the intense pleasure seemed to last for minutes. He said the lady cleaned him up with a warm wash cloth and left the room. (I've had plenty of massages myself and true professionals in the industry do not give "happy endings" like this).
I mean, if you want to give a guy such intense pleasure that he'll be ADDICTED TO YOU AND YOUR HANDS, then I couldn't just slap something together.
He just couldn't get it out of his mind. He admitted that he'd kept going back to this lady because he was "addicted to her hand jobs". He felt so incredibly guilty for cheating on his wife and that is why he invited me out for coffee. I asked him why he didn't ask his wife to give him genital massages that he found so incredibly intense.
Matt told me that prior to his wife he had a number of sexual partners. He had received a number of "pretty good" blow jobs and some rather intense lovemaking sessions over the years but nothing compared to the erotic pleasures he felt with his genitals in the hands of the masseuse.
I thought I could whip out a guide in one night. But the more I thought about it and researched I realized that giving an amazing hand job is not a simple thing.
When she finished with his arms and legs she worked her way under the towel and although he wanted to tell her to stop the feeling was just too intense and enjoyable.
Sure, I know where and how I like to be touched but all men are a little different. And just like I can't tickle myself, I get a completely different wonderful sensation when my wife strokes me than when I stroke myself.
After she was done with his back she asked him to turn over and she began to work on his neck and pecs.
Matt said the orgasm was so intense that he shot his load over his head, something he had not done for decades.
Then he asked me a personal favor. He asked if I would put a guide together that he could give to his wife. One that was clear yet explicit on how to give guys heavenly genital massages. He said his wife would trust me since I've been on Oprah and all those other talk shows and have written about sex and lovemaking for years.
He said that he knows what feels good, he just has a hard time communicating it in the bedroom. He said she did stroke him but it wasn't anything special and actually at times it was not pleasurable at all.
With their help along with my 20 plus years of professional experience as a highly respected lovemaking expert I was able to put together the most comprehensive guide to giving guys heavenly hand jobs.
Matt said he was was "paralyzed with pleasure" and couldn't get any words out of his mouth. She massaged all around his genitals for a while but eventually took hold of his raging erection and with some masterful strokes, she brought him over the edge.
Fortunately I have a mailing list of nearly 100,000 men who are very willing to share on this topic. I asked their advice on their favorite positions, techniques and locations to receive hand jobs. I wanted to know what drove them insane with pleasure and what was uncomfortable. I asked where on their body (not just their genitals) they liked to be touched and where specifically between their legs was the hottest spots for them.